Dear Me,

I heard on the radio today about a book coming out soon.  The title escapes me right now, but the book is a compilation of letters written by various celebrities and other people to their 16-year-old selves.  The DJ asked what we would say if we were to write such a letter.  Here is what I would say:  

Dear 16-year-old Self,

I know you think you're on top of the world right now and that life couldn't get much better.  Hold on to that feeling, but know - deep down - that it can (and will) get better. 

Cherish your friends.  Some will stay in your life, but many will go down different roads, and some will leave you.  Take nothing for granted.

Yes...right now you DO know your husband.  Be nice to that sweet Cooper boy and try to remember all the times he called and those socks he bought you for Christmas.  He's a little sore about that...

Your yearning to be accepted will be a lifelong battle you fight.  Stop wasting time making sure your clothes, hair, makeup, and possessions are perfect.  They aren't.  They won't ever be.  And even if they were it wouldn't be enough.

School is easy for you now.  But, try to learn to study.  You will need it in college.

Yes, your car is "reliable." Which in teenager speak means that it's not very pretty.  Hang on.  In about 7 years, you'll get the chance to buy one you like.  But remember...this one's on your dime.

Mom and Dad aren't as dumb as you think they are.  One day, you too will be saying "Were you born in a barn," "Money doesn't grow on trees," "Don't let the bought air out," and "Call me when you get there."  One day, they will be two of your best friends and you will actually enjoy hanging out with them!  I know, right!!  The protected will become the protector and your roles will change greatly over the years, but you will one day thank them for the lessons they taught you. 

Above all, remember that in all of life's crazy changes, there is one constant.  God will never leave you or forsake you.  You'll take Him for granted many times, but He's still there.  Remember true worship stems from gratitude and a humble heart.  Nothing you have is yours.  Nothing you've done have you done on your own.  God has given you amazing  family, friends, talents, and abilities.  Always use them for His glory. 

Sincerely,
Your THIRTY-year-old-self. 
(Yes, you will live to see 30 - and it really isn't THAT old!)